Seriously imma gonna indulge my stupidity for a post, cause I mean why the fuck not, right?!
So as I said i went out with my friends that I haven't seen that much recently. What a fuck up IMO!
We went to this old crummy bar. But I mean drinks are really cheap and we watched the soccer on big screen. Bleh Spain under performed IMO. So then these guys start hitting on the two girls with me. So I was kinda annoyed cause it isn't nice laid-back flirting. Rather like they take my fucking seat when I go to the bathroom. Then when I get back hey are like "U should chill we just wanna have a good time, and these are the only girls here." So I'm like "yeah okay, whatever". So after the match we leave to another place. They conveniently follow us there. Then we go sit outside - GUESS WHAT - they come sit at the table next to us and start being irritating again. Then a song starts playing and the three girls (we picked up another one on the way to the second place) wanna go dance (BTW the song was Waka Waka!!! LOVIT! >.<) So one of the guys asks me why I am going with. Then I told him I kinda have to take care of the girls. He replies "No worry, we are here". And without thinking I replied "exactly"...oops I'm such a biatch. But they were getting on my nerve. Anyway I'm getting bored writing about this. But the one gf made me go to a next place to follow them. What a nightmare!
So hence I have decided fuck str8 clubs/bars. I really only like gay bars now. Why? Cause I can go with my gf's and have a good time with them. I mean it is not that I am jealous if they get attention, but they get distracted And I can only see them once in a while so the times we do spend together I want us to actually spend together. And no, we chat beforehand as well, so it isn't like I'm oblivious to the fact that not much bonding can occur in a club. But we need to have fun and let loose. We are young ffs! Heheh!
Oh. o.O. Yeah, okay if u follow my blog for a while now, you would know that I said I don't do gay clubs. That changed the past three weeks. I went there very often. Someone special wanted to go. So we did. And I loved it. I feel at home and comfy. And the hot str8 topless barmen with ass cleavage helps haha!
Bleh! I start uni in a week. So not looking forward. Im gonna die of pressure. Meh, At least I love what I do!
Love ya guys!
Peace and love!
xXx
Showing posts with label gay guys. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gay guys. Show all posts
Sunday, July 4, 2010
Friday, January 29, 2010
One giant victory for me' liver!
Bleh!
No predrinks! My face crumbles "like a bridge into a river"! Lolz!
So ya, spend a hour or so getting my home nice and clean and all atmospheric, with lights and candles and music and what not and now it was just cancelled, cause everyone is running late. It is no big deal, it's just I hate the let go of a mood I was getting into for a few hours lolz. Weirdo?! So now that I have this extra hour I thought I could make another quick post before I go out.
Nway I was observing all the subcultures in SA. Especially the non-hetro's. And out of all it was evidently clear to me that gay guys to have it the best. I wonder why this is. I don't know if this is a international phenomenon or not or if it is just here in SA. At least in the part of SA where I live.
I wonder why this is. I mean for a bi guy I also reap some of the benefits of this "finding". I was thinking, and humour me here, maybe straight girls' apparent liking in gay guys has much to do with this. It is almost as if they are the gateway drug for gay guys into the illusive world of heterosexuals. Lolz! Am I tripping here?
It is also very clear to me that there is a definite tendency for lesbians to be much more underground then gay guys. It is no strange sight to see two guys as a couple. but it is not very frequently that one spots a lesbian couple.
What makes it the more interesting is that there seems to be a definite separation between the world of lesbians and gays here. Of course at rallies and so it will not be like this, but for most part it seems that the lifestyles do not intertwine that much
I am betting that this is maybe very obvious to most of u reading this and u are going "Wft how do u think this is news to us?". Well, honestly, remember I am new to this and I am not an active player in the "gay community".
Or is this not like this where ya'll live?
Nway this was just a random thought that popped into my little head.
Love and peace,
xXx
P.S. I made a post earlier today so be sure not to look it over!
No predrinks! My face crumbles "like a bridge into a river"! Lolz!
So ya, spend a hour or so getting my home nice and clean and all atmospheric, with lights and candles and music and what not and now it was just cancelled, cause everyone is running late. It is no big deal, it's just I hate the let go of a mood I was getting into for a few hours lolz. Weirdo?! So now that I have this extra hour I thought I could make another quick post before I go out.
Nway I was observing all the subcultures in SA. Especially the non-hetro's. And out of all it was evidently clear to me that gay guys to have it the best. I wonder why this is. I don't know if this is a international phenomenon or not or if it is just here in SA. At least in the part of SA where I live.
I wonder why this is. I mean for a bi guy I also reap some of the benefits of this "finding". I was thinking, and humour me here, maybe straight girls' apparent liking in gay guys has much to do with this. It is almost as if they are the gateway drug for gay guys into the illusive world of heterosexuals. Lolz! Am I tripping here?
It is also very clear to me that there is a definite tendency for lesbians to be much more underground then gay guys. It is no strange sight to see two guys as a couple. but it is not very frequently that one spots a lesbian couple.
What makes it the more interesting is that there seems to be a definite separation between the world of lesbians and gays here. Of course at rallies and so it will not be like this, but for most part it seems that the lifestyles do not intertwine that much
I am betting that this is maybe very obvious to most of u reading this and u are going "Wft how do u think this is news to us?". Well, honestly, remember I am new to this and I am not an active player in the "gay community".
Or is this not like this where ya'll live?
Nway this was just a random thought that popped into my little head.
Love and peace,
xXx
P.S. I made a post earlier today so be sure not to look it over!
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Dinner and urm a show!!!1
What a interesting day it was.
So I went to this Jamaican restaurant tonight to celebrate my cousin's finance's birthday. It was such a nice place. I really did enjoy it very much.
I had three very interesting cocktails throughout the dinner. Very yummy!!!
Then for starters I had chili mussels. It was so divine!!!! Then for mains I had this gourmet style burger. It was chili chicken with Camembert cheese and cranberry sauce.. OMG!!! What a combo!!! I was curling my toes. I was so stuffed I didn't have room for dessert, but I ordered a Jamaican style coffee which was delicious! I will be going back to this place soon in the future!
And in other news.
One of my best gf is acting so weird. I don't get it. We were super close this past month but the past week she has been ignoring me and when I saw her tonight she had this weird attitude. It sux. I hope it blows over quickly.
Something really weird happened tonight. Super weird. I was blushing half of the evening. After the dinner I wanted to go dancing. So I called up two gf's and went (one of them was the previously mentioned one). So we went to this regular spot we go to every so often. And for the first time there were gay guys. Cute gay guys at that. I was like so urm proud in a way. Felt strong in numbers. Representing and all. But then...
They started to hit on me. This was so peculiar to me. Two guys started dancing with me on the dance floor. I was so shocked and shy. So I just kinda left after a minute. I didn't know what to do. I'm only out to a dozen or so people. And then I went to the bar to order a beer. Whilst standing there two guys came over and stood next to me - one on each side and was kinda was checking me out. So I ordered my beer and left. This is when one grabbed my ass.
I was so horrified. I have never been in such a situation.
I am kinda happy and sad and confused all at once.
I don't know what to think.
Why did I react in this way. Was I ashamed of myself. Ashamed of the guys?
Overwhelmed or embarrassed?
Mmm this will be on my mind for a day or two...
What do u guys think. Was I begin a douche?
P.S Thanx to the two new followers!!!!
Love and peace,
xXx
So I went to this Jamaican restaurant tonight to celebrate my cousin's finance's birthday. It was such a nice place. I really did enjoy it very much.
I had three very interesting cocktails throughout the dinner. Very yummy!!!
Then for starters I had chili mussels. It was so divine!!!! Then for mains I had this gourmet style burger. It was chili chicken with Camembert cheese and cranberry sauce.. OMG!!! What a combo!!! I was curling my toes. I was so stuffed I didn't have room for dessert, but I ordered a Jamaican style coffee which was delicious! I will be going back to this place soon in the future!
And in other news.
One of my best gf is acting so weird. I don't get it. We were super close this past month but the past week she has been ignoring me and when I saw her tonight she had this weird attitude. It sux. I hope it blows over quickly.
Something really weird happened tonight. Super weird. I was blushing half of the evening. After the dinner I wanted to go dancing. So I called up two gf's and went (one of them was the previously mentioned one). So we went to this regular spot we go to every so often. And for the first time there were gay guys. Cute gay guys at that. I was like so urm proud in a way. Felt strong in numbers. Representing and all. But then...
They started to hit on me. This was so peculiar to me. Two guys started dancing with me on the dance floor. I was so shocked and shy. So I just kinda left after a minute. I didn't know what to do. I'm only out to a dozen or so people. And then I went to the bar to order a beer. Whilst standing there two guys came over and stood next to me - one on each side and was kinda was checking me out. So I ordered my beer and left. This is when one grabbed my ass.
I was so horrified. I have never been in such a situation.
I am kinda happy and sad and confused all at once.
I don't know what to think.
Why did I react in this way. Was I ashamed of myself. Ashamed of the guys?
Overwhelmed or embarrassed?
Mmm this will be on my mind for a day or two...
What do u guys think. Was I begin a douche?
P.S Thanx to the two new followers!!!!
Love and peace,
xXx
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